“I stopped doing it because I was told it was witchcraft.”
This was the first time I had heard this.
“What possible connection would there be between what you were doing and practicing the dark arts?”
“I don’t know, but it made me feel so guilty that I didn’t do it again.”
I knew she had spiritual powers, but she had hidden them, and now I knew why. This was why she had me stifle my own because she didn’t want me to be subjected to the same comments.
“I thought this person was closer to God than I was. I didn’t want to do anything wrong.”
“You sent healing to a sick person, and this isn’t from God? That makes no sense.”
“I did it all the time. Once when your dad was really sick and in the hospital, I did it then because he was having kidney problems.”
I remembered that because it was so frightening. When I was eight years old, I woke up to him yelling things that didn’t make sense. My bedroom was right off the kitchen, so any slight noise there would immediately wake me up.
“We have to get the boats in! There’s a storm coming! Hurry up!”
He started saying the names of my brothers and family members as if he could see them. What was happening? I was lying in bed wondering if I was dreaming.
“Jack, come with me. It will be okay,” I heard her say.
“No! We have to get the boats in. There’s a storm! It’s going to get worse in a few minutes.”
“I will help you get safe. Just come with me.” She sounded calm, as if this happened every day. I guess her training as a nurse in a crisis was kicking in.
“Hurry up! You are moving too slow! Get the fishing rods! Run!”
This craziness went on for a while. She was trying to get him to the car, and he was off somewhere on a lake. She opened my door and said,
“Chris, I have to get your dad to the doctor. I will be back in a little while.”
There were older siblings to make sure I was not left alone, but it was so scary when she said it. I thought he was dying.
Eventually, she was able to get him out of the house and to the Emergency Room. Later, I found out that he had a fever so high he was hallucinating.
They discovered he had kidney stones that would require surgery. The doctor was convinced there was no other way but to have the procedure. When she left the hospital, he was still very ill and not responding to the treatment they were administering.
“No one was around when I got home. So I sat at the kitchen table. I shut my eyes, and I could see him lying in bed at the hospital. It was so real like I had been transported there. I asked the Holy Spirit to help me. I was in two places at once. I knew I was in the kitchen, but I also was in his room. I felt this warm light start in my chest and flow out of my hands, and I directed it to him. I just sat like that for a while, not saying anything but letting this energy go through me to him.”
“When you explained this story, did you use the word “energy?”
“Well, that’s what made you into a witch. Dogmatic Christians can be hypersensitive to what words are used. But what you are saying is an accurate description of what it is. Energy, light, divine healing…I guess you didn’t use the right buzzword and got yourself in trouble.”
“I guess so. But right after I did that, he got better. His fever lifted, and the stones dissolved. The doctor couldn’t believe it. He had a total turnaround, and it worked every time I used it.”
“And that’s a bad thing?”
“I was made to feel that way. I have had the Holy Spirit with me for a long time. When I was twelve, I went to a tent revival, and since then, I have had a lot of spiritual help.”
She grew up in a small town where gossip and secrets ran rampant. I always had this view of her hometown as honest and pure until she told me some of the incidents that had been hidden from public view. There were extramarital affairs, children born from those affairs, and a bunch of other shady behavior. The priest would make house calls while the husbands were away at work, and he left his Bible and rosary at home. My grandma refused to let him in.
My mom’s story was the most buried, and I had uncovered it a few years prior. She had confessed to me that her father had sexually abused her. This had left her feeling ashamed and guilt ridden. He would target her when her mom would leave her in his care. She was afraid to speak up because in one instant, when she tried to say something, her mom told her she would kill him if he ever did that. My mom kept quiet because she didn’t want her mother to go to jail for murder.
These ugly encounters with her dad were going on consistently, and she didn’t know how to escape. When she heard that a preacher was coming to town, she snuck into the meetings, against her Catholic upbringing. When a man from this group was walking around and had asked her dad if he had found Jesus, he had sarcastically responded,
“I didn’t know he was lost.” His sense of humor was always cutting and at the expense of others.
She was taking a huge risk by attending the traveling preacher’s meeting, but something was pulling her in. When they asked people to come forward for the altar call, she went up, and her life changed from that moment.
At home that night in her bedroom, she was looking out her window. She felt a strong presence all around her and a strength that was not there before. She heard the familiar sound of his feet coming up the stairs, just like all the other times.
When he opened her door, she looked him in the eye and said,
“You will never touch me again.”
He backed up and walked away.
He still verbally abused her and made her life miserable in other ways. But she said he no longer made her afraid.
“I have had this power with me since then, and I have used it when I have needed it.”
“But, you keep some of it hidden to fit in, right?”
“Yes. I don’t want to do anything wrong, and I don’t want to argue with people.”
When she told me all this, I didn’t fully grasp it, but I do now. I continually have things happen that I cannot explain, and I don’t go looking for them. They show up, and while I used to be frightened by some of it, I am not anymore.
I find it so interesting how Jesus said this,
“The person who trusts in me will not only do what I am doing but even greater things..”
He walked on water, changed water into wine, healed the sick…and we are supposed to do even better than what was done? If you have a gift that doesn’t make sense, don’t let anyone convince you that it isn’t God just because they don’t understand it and are missing it.
I have been subjected to the same treatment, even being told demons possessed me by a church leader who had the worst behavior I have ever seen in life. Why? He was scared and felt threatened when I told him the truth. To counter that, he had to make me look bad.
If you allow heaven to invade your life, you will reap this reward in Mark 4:11:
He replied, “You are permitted to understand the secrets of the Kingdom of God.”
If you ask for more, it will come, and it won’t always make sense, but God will work through you so that you can let your light shine.